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Use I-statements

This reduces defensiveness and improves communication.

What You'll Do

Start your next conversation with an 'I-statement' to express your feelings clearly.

Scientific Basis

Using “I-statements” instead of “You-statements” can reduce defensiveness by 18%, improving emotional climate during discussions.

Soler, P. (2018). La comunicación en mediación social y su oportunidad para el desarrollo de la competencia intercultural. Revista de Mediación, 11(2), 34-41.

The Science of Impact

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Improved communication can lead to more effective conflict resolution, enhancing relationships.

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Reduced defensiveness fosters a more open dialogue, which is crucial in mediation settings.

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Effective language use can contribute to better emotional regulation and overall wellbeing.

Pro Tips

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Practice using I-statements in daily conversations to enhance clarity and reduce defensiveness.

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Engage in role-playing exercises for 15 minutes weekly to improve communication skills.

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Reflect on past discussions and identify opportunities to rephrase statements as I-statements.